Dump him and go find a man who is available and proud to walk around with you as his girlfriend. But you can go by what you see and hear in order to make an intelligent decision. In fact, he just called me at 3 a.m. (with a female in the back) asking me to save the time and date. They sent her a pic and all of all of us at the mall he couldnt deny it I mean we werent doing anything we were shopping for the kids and all hell broke loose. Girls that go with so called divorced guys make me sick their as **** as a brick and its embarrassing! The best way to handle a situation involving a child's life and the mum's is to talk to your man about it. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); My Boyfriend Calls Me His Baby Mama Is This Normal? What to do when u r confronted by your boyfriend's baby mama Boyfriend who won't be a man. I know its not always easy to bring up something like this, especially if he clearly likes calling you this name and it makes him happy. Now I'm trying to help them reconnect. I will never let my daughter go through that I went through ever . This is the beginning of her trying to make the relationship hell if he doesn't put a stop to it now it will continue to happen. These things are complicated and painful, and I will get over it eventually and find someone that matches me more and treats me better, but I wasted a lot of time and she probably has too because he doesn't love her still (he doesn't love himself and has deeper issues). I couldn't keep that baby knowing that I was pregnant by someone who would connivingly do that just to cover up cheating and to make it seem like I gave him something. Why do you feel the need to prove your worth? You have to be place on hold while he plays daddy and husband to his ex or really his woman. Because the sex is amazing and its something we both want. Put a stop to it now or you will regret ityou are NOT obliged to deal with this nonsense. I didn't see you mentioning that. Couple months ago i actually asked him if he has any love for his child's mother and he said Yes because they have a child together but he doesn't "like her/in love w her"i ended up hanging up because i couldn't accept it (guess i just easily get jealous - and realized i just can't date a man with kids/bby mother) i was mad right away..I just know I'm not the right match for him because i will never accept the fact that he has a child by another woman and not with meand my feelings about that were even stronger when i was actually in love with him..but now i have absolutely no feelings for him at allso i just ended it. Women love to be called baby in this situation. If he called you mama in front of people then it would either be the case that he naturally says it or that he was showing more overt attraction for you. He even had me in his phone as "babymomma". pecas. If hes answering the calls and discussing her hairdresser with her then why is it her nessicarily causing the problem. If she's here on a fiancee visa, they will have to marry within 90 days or she has to go back home. I'll remove myself because he already blames me he can't be with anyone because I'll always try with him . Theres no need to meet her. Use that logic to find someone dope and with no baggage. My boyfriend left me for his baby mama, now he wants me back. Yes!! he just tells me to be patient because he will buy them an apartment to move in too and that everything would be back to normal. I know I try but the shit she says sounds believable..they were together for 8 year there son is 3 I think deep down he still has feelings for her (even tho he talks bad about her ) and now we have a kid together..I think it's the same thing all over again. We would have sex on and off . Trust me its a hard pill to swallow regardless of which end of it youre on. Well, what I can tell you is that its certainly a term of endearment in some cultures and means that he sees you as wife and/or mother material! I'm basically in the same situation. And stupid me did everything she asked. No other girl would do the same with him. She said, "He'll marry him a quiet girl who doesn't give him problems." Distance is the biggest enemy when in a fight, and has been translated as the widening of a wedge. news flash woman want children out of love not by ****ing force. We literally were the same person!! "You don't want to be either, you are not "just" something, you are many great things and you win when you find someone who sees all of that.". If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number. **** that. They probably do still have soemthing going on. It also shows you how to read and interpret body language and how to make use of your own body language. So that happend a month later he FaceTimes me I pick up he says he just wanted to see me. Sometimes he would go out with them while I'm at home with our daughter and won't come back till 6 in the morning. He didn't want to end the relationship and it's possible that he wishes he could rekindle it. I'd rather chop off my member and toss it in the tall grass to never be seen again than to entertain the thought of getting back with her. My bf dated his BM for 14 years and they had three kids together. i have the same problem, i had this boy his name is lebo at first he told me that his not with the baby mama and out of the blue he told me the baby mama is back in his life.i stoped calling him and he called to ask me to give him R100.what can i do. He began cheating. I avoided him at all cause I was not ready to see him. I don't think I could ever be in another relationship with another woman! Of course, you dont have to have children with him just because hes calling you his baby mama, but it is a sign that hes serious about you. Hes not a bad guy to be honest but something is off. I went to the doctor to make sure I was straight. After that i change dramatically and fell even more in love with her but she left me for another guy and lied about it. And she has additional four other children with three different baby daddy's. Wow who died and made you God to judge? If neither the child or mother of the child know you something is up! I never really stayed on the topic because I felt as if it was real he would say more than what he is saying now. There's nothing to be confused about, let it go and except that he is married! Females would be like, "You the one?" Question similar to this, my partner and I have been together for over a year, I fit the role of step father for her daughter (clothe, food, bills, school runs, fun stuff etc.). I have a kid but my kid is raised very well and very well behaved. I think men will always have a special place for their BM like a respect factor for the mother of their kids. You should be ashamed of yourself. To me he's a ex I have a child with, My ex will always hate me and list as his #1 priority to turn my kids against me. The problem is i messed up the relationship and now shes afraid ima do it again. It's popular, but that doesn't make it less meaningful. You hope shes treated fairly and the same if not better if he decides to have children with your bm, but you can take control and see your daughter more if your bm isnt a nut case. My boyfriend cheated on me with his baby mama and now she is pregnant but I still love him HELP!! It is really not the most common term of endearment, but calling someone "baby mama" or "baby daddy" is a pet name of sorts. So guys me and my daughter's dad split twice and it's been a year since our second split we have both moved on and he is now purchasing a home with the new girlfriend. PERIOD!! That makes you the side chick. If you treat a guy like hes a piece of shit hes going to act like one. (I left her cuz she cheated) she thinks I'm never going to find anyone but her.it seems like She just ****s with me and I'm not the type to get revenge but I wanna just find someone else to be with and move on . LMAO. - yup! Guys follow me always did always will I will never follow them! I told him if you have a comment or concern or question about our son send me an email otherwise do not co tact me. What should I do?, I also know a woman who is dating a guy with a child. He has too much to deal with and is putting her feelings ahead of yours. It depends on the situatiin if you still love her. (I dont recommend that girlfriends try and contact or interact with the co-parents unless its about the well-being of the child. u know the situation n if u c u can't handle this then move on. All of a sudden, we did. HE TOLD ME THEIR RELATIONSHIP ENDED LONG TIME AGO? I love my daughter with all my heart. And we have been together for 5 yrs. He never stopped texting me and finally he told me he wanted to work things out and blah, blah I shouldve never listen to that bs again because I got pregnant! For me, I don't think my boyfriend is "in love" with the mother of his children but he does have love for her and care for her for the simple fact she's the mother of his two kids. Depending how things happen, if they were in a relationship or if they continue seeing each other after the split, in my case we were together for almost 2 years I found out he was lying to me the whole time he was still sleeping with his ex I suspected something wasnt ok, yes I did look into his fb. But he tells me that shes a crazy b**** and shes mental Is that not considered cheating? My situation is different, I left my daughter's father when I was pregnant. He does what he wants and when we actually suggest him to do something he goes why is everyone forcing to change me or make me do something. Shes married my son seems to love the guy. By Each of the different reasons why a guy might call a woman mama will likely come with a number of clues in his body language. If he is allowing her to do what she is doing, then he is moron who wants his bread buttered on both sides. Dear Carolyn: My husband has a child by his ex-girlfriend. but had you been on birth control he wouldn't have been able to "trap" you as you call it. But he makes it like it's nothing. Just like he posted a status saying I'm going to sleep and she'll comment yea you better go to bed. Not "love" but "Love" the way back in the bedroom when they can! I said it bum to the max. Body language plays a key role in our daily lives. That's how bad I wanted him out of my life. should i just cut the relationship short?. The thought of my daughter being parented by another man rips me apart inside and its always been very hard for me to cope with.
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